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  • The Place Where We Are Right

    by Yehuda Amichai


    From the place where we are right
    Flowers will never grow
    In the spring.
     
    The place where we are right
    Is hard and trampled
    Like a yard.
     
    But doubts and loves
    Dig up the world
    Like a mole, a plow.
    And a whisper will be heard in the place
    Where the ruined
    House once stood.

    Tagged: poetry doubt hard and trampled like a yard

    Posted on April 4, 2012 with 1 note ()

  • Relax, by Ellen Bass

    Bad things are going to happen.

    Your tomatoes will grow a fungus

    and your cat will get run over.

    Someone will leave the bag with the ice cream

    melting in the car and throw

    your blue cashmere sweater in the dryer.

    Your husband will sleep

    with a girl your daughter’s age, her breasts spilling

    out of her blouse. Or your wife

    will remember she’s a lesbian

    and leave you for the woman next door. The other cat -

    the one you never really liked - will contract a disease

    that requires you to pry open its feverish mouth

    every four hours, for a month.

    Your parents will die.

    No matter how many vitamins you take,

    how much Pilates, you’ll lose your keys,

    your hair and your memory. If your daughter

    doesn’t plug her heart

    into every live socket she passes,

    you’ll come home to find your son has emptied

    your refrigerator, dragged it to the curb,

    and called the used appliance store for a pick up - drug money.

    There’s a Buddhist story of a woman chased by a tiger.

    When she comes to a cliff, she sees a sturdy vine

    and climbs halfway down. But there’s also a tiger below.

    And two mice - one white, one black - scurry out

    and begin to gnaw at the vine. At this point

    she notices a wild strawberry growing from a crevice.

    She looks up, down, at the mice.

    Then she eats the strawberry.

    Tagged: poetry

    Posted on March 29, 2011 with 1 note ()

  • What the Living Do

    by Marie Howe


    Johnny, the kitchen sink has been clogged for days, some utensil probably fell down there.
    And the Drano won't work but smells dangerous, and the crusty dishes have piled up

    waiting for the plumber I still haven't called. This is the everyday we spoke of.
    It's winter again: the sky's a deep, headstrong blue, and the sunlight pours through

    the open living-room windows because the heat's on too high in here and I can't turn it off.
    For weeks now, driving, or dropping a bag of groceries in the street, the bag breaking,

    I've been thinking: This is what the living do. And yesterday, hurrying along those
    wobbly bricks in the Cambridge sidewalk, spilling my coffee down my wrist and sleeve,

    I thought it again, and again later, when buying a hairbrush: This is it.
    Parking. Slamming the car door shut in the cold. What you called that yearning.

    What you finally gave up. We want the spring to come and the winter to pass. We want
    whoever to call or not call, a letter, a kiss--we want more and more and then more of it.

    But there are moments, walking, when I catch a glimpse of myself in the window glass,
    say, the window of the corner video store, and I'm gripped by a cherishing so deep

    for my own blowing hair, chapped face, and unbuttoned coat that I'm speechless:
    I am living. I remember you.

    Tagged: poetry

    Posted on January 1, 2011 with 1 note ()

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